Showing posts with label Palmer. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Palmer. Show all posts

Tuesday, October 4, 2022

A Time to Regroup

 Hello, cousins!

After the publication of the Callin Family History and John H. Callin's War Poems this spring, I decided to give myself a break from project-focused research. I've still been active, as you can see by my WikiTree edit history, but rather than pushing to reach an end goal, I've been tugging stray threads and exploring rabbit holes. 

Now I'd like to refocus and figure out which branches of my tree need the most attention, and which branches you are all most interested in.

To help with that, I made a list of each ancestor in my tree that represents a "peak" in my research - they aren't necessarily "brick walls," but they are as far back as I've gone using a thorough, evidence-based approach. My goal for each name in this list is to identify that person's parents and siblings and document them as thoroughly as possible with records, obituaries, and whatever stories or artifacts may have been passed down.

I've grouped them based on which of my four grandparents' lines of ancestry they fall into, so if you already know who our common ancestor is, that should help you figure out which Project you will be most interested in. Then, I give the link to that individual's WikiTree profile, and to their page in my publicly-available Ancestry tree.

If you'd like to jump in and help, or if you just have questions, you can use the contact form on the right side of this page to let me know. I'd love to hear from you!

The Robert Callin Project

These are ancestors of my Grandpa Bob:

Elizabeth (Berlin) Callin: my 3rd great-grandmother

William Walker: my 3rd great-grandfather

Lydia (Bowen) Walker: William's wife, my 3rd great-grandmother

Solomon Bollman: my 4th great-grandfather

Eleanor (Waters) Bollman: my 4th great-grandmother

Thomas B Hale: my 3rd great-grandfather

The Nancy Witter Project

These are ancestors of my Grandma Nancy:

Adam Piper Witter: my 3rd great-grandfather

Hannah Jane (Tice) Witter: Adam's wife, my 3rd great-grandmother 

Nancy Ellen (Shriver) Witter: my 2nd great-grandmother

Albert Crydler Huff: my 2nd great-grandfather

Rosa Edith (Murray) Huff: Albert's wife, my 2nd great-grandmother

The Russell Clark Project

These are ancestors of my Grandpa Russ:

Joel Clark: my 2nd great-grandfather


Sarah Jane (Bellamy) Clark: Joel's wife, my 2nd great-grandmother

James Thomas Reynolds: my 2nd great-grandfather

Mary Frances (May) Reynolds: James's wife, my 2nd great-grandmother

The Alberta Tuttle Project

These are ancestors of my Grandma Alberta:

Edmund Tuttle: my 3rd great-grandfather
Josephine Avena (Plumsted) Tuttle: Edmund's wife, my 3rd great-grandmother
Florence Mabel (Hart) Tuttle: my 2nd great-grandmother
Emil Carl Frey: my 2nd great-grandfather
Jacob Edward Opp: my 3rd great-grandfather
Mary Elizabeth (Palmer) Opp: Jacob's wife, my 3rd great-grandmother





Friday, June 28, 2019

The Carper Children, part 1

A quick admin note: I've set up a few more ways to interact with me and each other, and I've set out a "hat" if you'd like to drop some coins in. Details are at the end of the post and along the right-hand side of the page. Now - a quick recap:

The Callin Family History sketched out a few facts about Elizabeth Ferguson McNabb Reed, and thanks to her obituary, we now know a lot more about her and her family than we did before. In last week's post, we looked at her first marriage to James McNabb and met their daughter, Ella McNabb Carper.

Alda Carper: her place
in the Callin Family History
We will look at the descendants of Ella's four children over the next couple of posts, starting today with the girl the CFH mistakenly called "Alta McCorse."


     A. Alda Florence Carper (1879–1970) was born on 12 April 1879 in Auburn, De Kalb County, Indiana. She married James George McCosh (1871–1961) on 21 December 1895. Clearly, that name seems very similar to the "Alta McCorse" mentioned in the Callin Family History - and as the CFH says, they had four children.

James was the son of Silas J McCosh (1841–1906) and Christina "Christie" Long (1847–1910) and was born on 27 November 1871 in Auburn. He had three sisters (Emma, Laura Belle, and Ida) and a brother, Charles.

Aldy and James had one daughter and three sons, the youngest of whom died in infancy:

     1. Flossie Pearl McCosh (1896–1937)
     2. Silas Jacob McCosh (1898–1962)
     3. Paul Leroy McCosh (1900–1977)
     4. George F McCosh (1902–1902)

In case you missed it, they named their first two sons after two of the earliest Christian evangelicals: Silas and Paul, who traveled together on Paul's second missionary journey. Aldy and James raised their kids on their farm in Keyser Township, and after Flossie's death in 1937, they also raised two of their grandchildren. After he retired from farming, James and Aldy moved to 1113 Pearl Street in Auburn, where they were living when James died on 30 August 1961, at the age of 89. Alda died on 15 June 1970, at the age of 91. They are buried together in Woodlawn Cemetery in Auburn.

     1. Flossie Pearl McCosh (1896–1937) was born on 30 October 1896 in De Kalb County and married her first husband, John Franklin Hess (1887–1958), on 28 September 1912. He was the son of Jacob G. Hess (1851–1927) and Rose Moody (1849–1901) and he was born in Garrett on 27 October 1887.

Flossie was just one month short of her 16th birthday when she married Frank, who was 24. They soon had two children: Floreen and George. The marriage did not last, however, and Frank sued for divorce in September of 1917, alleging adultery (as can be seen in the newspaper clipping at right).

In 1920, Flossie was listed as a single lodger in the home of the Laymen family in Milford, LaGrange County, Indiana. The children lived in Keyser with their grandparents, Aldy and James McCosh.

According to Floreen's granddaughter, "Both Frank and Flossie would tell Uncle George and Nanny (Floreen) that they would come to get them, and they would sit waiting for them.  Many times, never showing up.  They would occasionally be brought to their houses where their 'new' families lived.  But [they were] never allowed to stay more than a few hours. ... Nanny told me of many times, watching her parents leave and her and Uncle George sitting on the porch crying.  But those visits were very few.  Nanny was close, later in life, with her half-siblings.  I remember going to her sister’s house.  I know that her parents loved them very much.  I think they just couldn’t figure out how to make it work, so Grandma and Grandpa McCosh just took care of it."

Flossie married her second husband, Alva Emerick (1895–1954), in LaGrange County, Indiana, on 15 July 1920. Alva was the step-son of Oliver Laymen, and he and his one-year-old son, Sebra, were living in the Laymens' Milford home where Flossie was lodging.

Frank Hess also remarried on 27 October 1920 in Allen County, Indiana, to Edith Mae Roberson (1900–1979). Frank and Edith had two daughters, whom they raised in Fort Wayne, and he died there on 8 July 1958.

Flossie and Alva had four children together; two daughters and two sons, whom they raised in Milford. It isn't clear who the mother of Alva's son, Sebra, might have been; where his official documents list a mother's name, they list Flossie, but he was definitely born two years before Alva married Flossie. It seems possible that Alva and Flossie had Sebra while she was separated from Frank - but there is no solid evidence of that.


That said, we do know that Sebra Wanzo Emerick (1918–1976)  was born on 29 August 1918, in Stroh, Lagrange County, Indiana. PFC Sebra Emerick served in the Pacific Theater during World War II. He was married twice, but he does not seem to have left any children behind.

He seems to have led a somewhat troubled life, as he appears in the newspapers several times for drunk driving, public drunkenness, and at least once after a "family brawl" involving his brother, Ernest, and brother-in-law, Orval Lung. Sebra died in a fire that swept through his house trailer on 24 April 1976, in Auburn. He was 57 years old and was buried in Hudson, Indiana.


Flossie died on 12 April 1937 in Giant, De Kalb County, Indiana, at the age of 40. About 1950, Alva moved to Steuben County, where he was killed in a hit-and-run accident near his home the night of 1 July 1954. He was buried in Wright Cemetery, Hudson, Steuben County, Indiana.

     a. Floreen I. Hess (1913–2004) was born on 21 May 1913 in Auburn, De Kalb County, Indiana. When her parents divorced, she and her little brother, George, went to stay with her grandparents, Aldy and James McCosh.

Floreen married Kenneth Harry Palmer (1910–1991) on 7 December 1929 in De Kalb County. Kenneth was born on 31 January 1910 in Auburn to Harry Oscar Palmer (1885–1977) and Blanche Elma Wise (1888–1948). He was the second of five children.

Kenneth and Floreen both worked for the Auburn Printing Company. Floreen retired in 1975 after 40 years of service. Again, according to her granddaughter, Ken and Floreen were the first people to have a cottage on Golden Lake in Angola, Indiana. "Actually the very first cottage on Fanning Road. He was at one time, the president of the lake association...  I remember him going to the board meetings.  And actually, have a cassette tape of him practicing his speech about how they needed to clean out the creek.  The Fanning’s were related to Kenneth’s side of the family."

When Kenneth died on 11 April 1991, and Floreen on 5 May 2004, they left behind one daughter and one son, both of whom are still living, six grandchildren, 11 great-grandchildren, and one great-great-grandchild.

     b. George DeLoss Hess (1915–2002) grew up in the home of his grandparents, Aldy and James G. McCosh. He was 21 years old when his mother died, and the following year, he married Alta Mae Martin (1920–2009) on 18 June 1938. They raised a son, Jerry Dee, together.

Alta was an accountant with the Dana Corporation in Auburn for many years, and the couple spent a lot of time in Avon Park, Florida, until George's death on 14 July 2002. Alta died on 12 July 2009 at Parkview Noble Hospital in Kendallville. They left behind two granddaughters and six great-grandchildren.

     i. Jerry Dee Hess (1939–1999) was born on 14 July 1939, in Auburn, Indiana, and he died on 8 March 1999, at the age of 59. He was an alum of DePauw University and was survived by two daughters, still living.

     c. Virginia Lucille Emerick (1920–2015) was born on 7 September 1920 in Stroh, Lagrange County, Indiana. She married her first husband Orval Willis Lung (1920–1992) on 8 September 1938, about a year and a half after her mother died. Virginia and Orval had five children together, three of whom are still living.

Orval was born on 10 June 1920 to Merritt C Lung (1886–1970) and Esther S Roy (1891–1969) in Wolcottville, Lagrange County, Indiana. He served in the U.S. Army from 5 December 1944 to 30 August 1946. After the war, he worked as a testman for Indiana Bell Telephone Company and after he retired in 1975, he was employed for 15 years by the St. Joseph County Public Library as a bookmobile driver. He married his second wife, Louise Anna Heinrich (1916–1998), in 1974.

Virginia married her second husband, Raymond Neighbors (1909–1985), sometime between 1956 and 1960. They lived in South Bend, Indiana, where Ray died in 1985. When Virginia died in 2015 she was survived by a daughter, two sons, ten grandchildren, seven great-grandchildren, and eighteen great-great-grandchildren.

     ii. Linda Lee Lung (1942–2015) was the second daughter born to Virginia and Orval on 6 December 1942 in Sturgis, Michigan. She moved with her family to South Bend, St Joseph County, Indiana, in 1950. On 16 January 1960, she married Niles Albert Stickler in South Bend.  Niles was born 26 November 1936 in Mishawaka, St Joseph County, Indiana, to Elmer Elwood Stickler (1895–1970) and Dora Ann Otto (1897–1981).

Niles served honorably in the Army from 12 March 1956 to 11 March 1959. He worked for Preston Trucking Co. as a heavy duty truck mechanic, retiring in 1998. Linda retired from South Bend Water Works, where she worked as an Administrative Secretary for several years. Niles loved working with wood and making furniture, toys, hope chests for his daughters, and toy boxes for his grandchildren.

Niles died on 15 April 2007 at Our Lady of Peace Hospital in South Bend. Linda died on 11 February 2015 at Memorial Hospital in South Bend after a lengthy illness. They are survived by two daughters, a son, seven grandchildren, and five great-grandchildren

     v. Ginger Lynn Lung (1952–1952) would have been the youngest child of Virginia and Orval. She died in infancy.

     d. Margie Alda Emerick (1922–1995) was the second daughter of Flossie and Alva, born on 1 September 1922 in Elmira, Lagrange County, Indiana. A little over a year after her mother's death, Margie married Edward James Beck (1920–1974) on 30 September 1938. Edward was born on 8 May 1920 in Union, De Kalb County, Indiana, the son of Phillip Henry Beck (1888–1937) and Mary Catherine Beck (1893–1984).

(No, Phillip and Mary were not related to each other, though both of their families lived in Lancaster, Pennsylvania. If there is a connection between them other than marriage, it is no closer than second- or third-cousins.)

Edward and Margie had two children, both of whom are still living. However, when Edward enlisted in the Marine Corps, where he served from 17 May 1944 to 13 February 1946, Margie decided to ask for a divorce. Newspaper accounts made things seem quite ugly, and custody of their children was awarded to Edward's mother until Edward could return from the war. He remarried Gladys L. DeLong Surface (1915-1990), and he died in Sturgis, St. Joseph, Michigan, on 29 April 1974.

Margie married Frank Edward Smith (1923–1961) on 23 August 1947. He was the son of Frank Smith (1895–1955) and Daisy Hindenlang (1901–1958), born in Decatur, Adams County, Indiana, on 22 February 1923. Frank and Margie had one daughter, still living, who they raised in Garret. Frank died unexpectedly of a heart attack as he left his job at the Midwestern Foundry the afternoon of 30 November 1961. Margie died of congestive heart failure in the DeKalb Memorial Hospital on 6 November 1995, at the age of 73, and she was buried in the Wright Cemetery in Hudson, Steuben County, Indiana.

     e. Ernest Russel Emerick (1924–1989) was born on 20 May 1924, in Stroh, Lagrange County, Indiana. He married Dolores Irene Shultz (1927–2009) on 30 January 1945, after serving in the U.S. Army from 19 February 1943 to 26 October 1944. The couple raised six children, all but one of whom are still living.

Ernest worked at the Midwestern Foundry, where he seems to have been an exemplary employee. He and Dolores lived in Waterloo in the 1960s, and were both members of the Auburn Radio club, as well, known by their handle, KHC8674.

Ernest died on 20 July 1989 in Fort Wayne, Allen County; Dolores survived him by thirty years. She died at age 82 on 26 May 2009, at Parkview Hospital, Fort Wayne. They are buried in Corunna Cemetery in De Kalb County, Indiana. They left behind three sons, two daughters, 20 grandchildren, 45 great-grandchildren; and one great-great-granddaughter.

     ii. Victor Allen Emerick (1947–2005) was the second child of Ernest and Dolores, born 28 April 1947 in Kendallville, Noble County, Indiana. Victor and his first wife, who is still living, had four children. He married his second wife, Pamela Dee Ferguson, on 17 April 1976 in Sturgis, St. Joseph County, Michigan, and they had one more child together.

(Note: Pamela does not appear to be even remotely related to the Fergusons who appear elsewhere in the Callin Family History.)

Victor worked as a machinist at Flowserve in Kalamazoo, Michigan, and worked at Sutton Tool for over 20 years. Pamela preceded Victor in death on 30 January 1997. He died at age 57 on 24 January 2005 in Three Rivers, Michigan. He was survived by his first wife, three sons, two daughters, and eleven grandchildren.

One of Victor's sons, Lawrence J. Emerick (1971–2017), died on 7 July 2017 in Mount Dora, Florida, where he lived with his wife and two sons.

     f. Neal Arthur Emerick (1925–2010) was born on 19 October 1925, in Stroh, Lagrange, Indiana. He served in the U.S. Army from 11 January 1944 to 25 February 1946, spending part of that time in the Philippines. Near the beginning of his time in the Army, he married his first wife, Viva Lucille Christlieb (1926–1997), on 8 August 1944 in Fort Wayne. They had two daughters, still living, but Neal sued for divorce in 1957.

Neal married his second wife, Sezar Renia Branson (1922–1992), in Auburn on 15 February 1964. After Renia died on Valentine's Day 1992, Neal and Viva re-married on 5 September of that year and were together when she died on 27 November 1997.

Neal died at age 84 on 22 July 2010 at his home in Auburn. He was survived by his two daughters and a son-in-law, seven grandchildren, and 12 great-grandchildren.

     2. Silas Jacob McCosh (1898–1962) was the second child of Aldy and James McCosh, born on 14 September 1898 in Auburn, De Kalb County, Indiana, and grew up in Keyser. Apart from a stint in the U.S. Army from 17 April through 26 May 1919, he remained on his parents' farm through 1920.

Silas married Marceile B Housel (1909–1984) on 29 September 1927 and in 1930, they were living in Garrett, with Silas working at the foundry. She was the youngest of three children of Arthur Wakefield Housel (1882–1960) and Alta Florence "Aldy" Miller (1881–1965), born on 11 October 1909 in Garrett.

Silas was a machinist at Warner Automotive Parts until his health forced him to retire in 1959. He died after a heart attack at his home on 3 March 1962, after suffering for three years from a heart condition. He was buried in the Cedar Creek Cemetery in Cedar, De Kalb County. Marceile died on 7 August 1984 and was buried with her husband.

     a. Gerald Arthur McCosh (1928–1928) was born on 5 April 1928 and died on 1 May from whooping cough and pneumonia.

     b. Betty Florence McCosh (1930–2000) was born 11 January 1930 and grew up in Garrett and Butler. She attended Auburn High School.

Betty married Richard Stanley Surfus (1930–2005) on 8 August 1953, in Garrett. Richard was the son of Wayne Harold Surfus (1902–1984) and Edith Houser (1907–1991), born on 9 February 1930.

Richard was serving as a sergeant in the U.S. Army when he and Betty married. He enlisted on 18 January 1952 and was deployed in Korea. After the hostilities ended, he was a forklift operator at Warner Gear in Auburn, retiring in 1988. He also enjoyed farming.

Betty died on 22 May 2000 and was buried in the Cedar Creek Cemetery. Richard died at age 75 on 7 May 2005, at Miller's Merry Manor in Garrett, and he was buried with Betty. They were survived by three sons and two daughters-in-law, and six grandchildren.

     c. Dorothy Mae McCosh (1931–2018) was born in Garrett on 4 December 1931. She married Donald Eugene Gall (1927–1999) in Butler on 9 November 1951. He was the son of Otis Eugene Gall (1883–1969) and Mamie I White (1894–1980) and was born on 12 April 1927 in Butler.

Don died on 21 September 1999. Dorothy died Thursday, 22 February 2018 at DeKalb Health in Auburn at the age of 86. They are survived by three sons, five grandchildren, 18 great-grandchildren, and one great-great-grandson.

     d. Paul Wayne McCosh (1934–2014) was born 19 October 1934 in Garrett, Indiana, and died on 11 July 2014 at DeKalb Health. He was married several times and is survived by three sons, a daughter, 2 step-sons, several grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

     e. James Arthur McCosh (1944–2017) was born on 11 February 1944 in Garrett, Indiana, and attended Garrett High School. He was married in 1966, and he and his wife had three sons (one of whom is still living) before they divorced. Jim died on 17 November 2017 in Angola, Steuben County, Indiana.

     i. David James McCosh (1966) was born at DeKalb Memorial Hospital on 12 July 1966 but succumbed to respiratory failure at three days of age.

     ii. James A McCosh (1967–2000) was born 30 June 1967in Auburn. He was married on 15 June 2000 but died in a car accident on 29 December of that year. He was 33 years old.

     3. Paul Leroy McCosh (1900–1977) was the third child of James and Aldy (Carper) McCosh, born on 27 April 1900 in Auburn. Like his brother, Silas, he grew up on the farm in Keyser and served during World War I, enlisting from 18 April 1917 through 26 May 1919.

Paul married Gladys Mary McJury (1903–1984) on 25 July 1927 in Levering, Michigan. She was born on 14 January 1903, the daughter of Leslie J McJury (1868–1944) and Lillian B Gleason (1868–1945).

Paul worked at Eddy Paper Corp. for several years, and later owned and operated Paul's Diner in Three Rivers and the Pleasant Beach Resort at Carp Lake, Michigan. He died on 10 December 1977 in Three Rivers, Sturgis County, Michigan. Gladys followed a few years later on 16 August 1984 in Petoskey, Emmet County, Michigan. They were both buried in Lakeview Cemetery in Mackinaw City, Emmet County, Michigan.

     i. Jane Ann McCosh Durand (1935–1982) was the only child of Paul and Gladys, born on 15 May 1935 in Three Rivers, Michigan. She attended Three Rivers High School and then Western Michigan University in Kalamazoo. She married after finishing school and became a nurse in Battle Creek, Calhoun County, Michigan.

Mrs. Jane Durand died just two years before her mother on 3 September 1982, also in Petoskey, Emmet County. She left behind her husband and two children, a son and daughter, both still living.
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And that is that for the descendants of the girl misidentified as "Alta McCorse" in the Callin Family History.

Special thanks to Floreen Hess Palmer's granddaughter, Sam Worley, for sharing her grandmother's story with us. As a researcher who doesn't know most of the people I write about on a firsthand basis, it's always a little scary to weigh in on what might be sensitive family matters. I always appreciate the compassion and honesty I find in my growing circle of cousins.

It's still a little amazing to me how quickly the family can expand. I was surprised to see how many people there were to document in this branch of the family. The post kept getting longer, and I kept breaking it into smaller chapters - and this is only "part 1" for Ella McNabb Carper's children! We'll continue with Alda's siblings next week.

As always, if you've found one or more of your relatives mentioned in this blog, please get in touch. You can comment below (anonymous comments are usually not as helpful), or email "mightieracorns" at Gmail.com.

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Until next time.... Happy Hunting!

Sunday, July 16, 2017

James C. Palmer and Martha Peterson

James C Palmer was born in April 1814 in New York. He married Martha Peterson (1815–1882) around 1836; they are my 4th-great grandparents. Our previous post focused on Martha's father, Samuel Peterson, and on his descendants.

I know very little about James Palmer, as the earliest record I have found online that identifies him is the 1860 U.S. Census. He appears in four of the U.S. Census records (1860, 1870, 1880, and 1900), three state census records (two for New Jersey, and one for New York), and about 16 city directories, so we know that he was born in New York state (the minority of records say New Jersey), that he worked as a shipwright, like his father-in-law, and that from 1871 forward, he and his family lived in Jersey City, New Jersey.

The family's first documented appearance was in Washington, Middlesex county, New Jersey, in 1860, according to the U.S. Census. The household in that record included Martha's father, niece, and nephew. Sam Peterson died in 1862, and in 1865, the remaining Palmer family (plus two Petersons) lived in Brooklyn, New York, according to that year's State Census. By 1870, they were in Jersey City, and all of the subsequent records show James living there.

James and Martha had four daughters, spread out over 19 years. When Martha died in 1882, at age 66, James lived on his own for about ten years, but eventually went to live with his second-youngest daughter, Sarah Decker.  He died in 1904 at the impressive age of 90.

I. Mary Elizabeth Palmer (1837–1889)

Jacob E. Opp, about 1910
Sources are pretty evenly split on the subject of where Mary was born; most records say New York, a few say New Jersey. As with her father, the earliest record I have that lists Mary is the 1860 U.S. Census. She appears three times in the U.S. Census (1860, 1870, and 1880) and once in the New York State Census (1865). The only other records I have is of her death, in the New Jersey, Deaths and Burials Index, 1798-1971.

Mary Elizabeth married Jacob Edward Opp (1842–1913) about 1867. (They are my 3rd-great grandparents.) Jacob was a Civil War veteran and railroad engineer from North Dansville, Livingston county, New York, and his pension record from the National Archives was very helpful to me when I began researching this branch of the family. I'll talk more about him and his ancestors in future posts.

Mary and Jacob had three children, two daughters and a son. They raised their family in Paterson, Pasaic county, New Jersey, but also appear to have been close to the Opp family in Dansville. After Mary died in 1889, Jacob relocated from Paterson to his daughter's home in Newark, but still appeared in the U.S. Census in his mother's household in Dansville on the 1900, as did his daughter's family (the Freys).

The records imply that Jacob never stopped working as an engineer, driving trains right up until his death from pneumonia on 17 July 1913.

     A. Lillie May Opp (1868–1881) died young, only aged 13 years 6 months. She is buried in Green Mount Cemetery in Dansville, Livingston county, New York.

     B. James Henry Opp (1870–1941) married three times, and had a total of eight children. Because marriage and birth records were sparse, I can't be sure that I correctly associated children with the correct mother, so please let me know in the comment section at the bottom of this post if I need to make any updates.

James was born in Dansville on 11 March 1870, and grew up in Paterson. His first marriage was on 14 July 1889, when he married his cousin, Evelyn Stevens (b. 1870). His mother died in September of that year.

James and Evelyn had two children together, but did not stay together for very long. Evelyn remarried in 1900, and we will discuss her later in this post.

     1. Richard Dana Opp (1890–1944) was born 11 August 1890 in Jersey City, and married Helen Platt (1886–1965) in 1913. A few years later, he joined the New York National Guard in 1917, where he served in the 7th Infantry as a corporal. A couple of years later, he joined his father in relocating to Elmira, New York, where he worked for the Aluminum Ware Manufacturing Company.

I don't know when they were married, but in 1920, he was listed in the U.S. Census with his second wife, Anna S Klein (1890–1973), and in 1922, Helen Platt Opp took her father-in-law, James H. Opp, to court over an unspecified debt.

     a. Richard Dana Opp Jr. (1917–1991) was born on July 22, 1917, in Bronx, New York. He entered the Naval Academy at Annapolis in 1937, and would eventually retire from the U.S. Marine Corps at the rank of Lt. Colonel. He and his wife, Ruth O'Connor (1913–2002), had one son and one daughter, both of whom are still living. He died on February 13, 1991, in Fort Belvoir, Virginia, at the age of 73, and was buried in Arlington, Virginia.


     b. Edna Mae Opp (1920–1993) was born on March 28, 1920, in Elmira, New York. She worked in a credit union until World War II broke out, and she then enlisted in the Women's Army Corps (W.A.C.). After the war, her arthritis forced her to move to a hot, dry climate, and so she relocated to El Paso, Texas. She lived there with her mother until Anna's death in 1973. Edna died on June 2, 1993, in El Paso, Texas, at the age of 73, and was buried there.

     2. Lillian Elizabeth Opp (b. 1893) married William Corwin Johnson Jr (b. 1888) in 1916, and we know they had a son (possibly still living), and two daughters: Charlotte Elaine Johnson Bloch (1917–1989) and Lillian Joy Johnson  Franklin (1921–2003).
   
James married his second wife, Lillian Jones (1871–1915), on 20 January 1896.  James worked in New York City, and the family lived in Newark, New Jersey. In 1900, James's company, Opp & Grundy, went into bankruptcy. Still, he worked hard and eventually got back on his feet.

They had five children before Lillian's death in 1915.

     3. Julian Theyer Opp (1899–1978) was a mechanic who lived in Union county, New Jersey. He married Charlotte L Jacques (1913–1997) around 1930, and they had two daughters, who may still be living.

     4. Lucinda Opp (1901–1902) died before her first birthday, and was buried in the Sleepy Hollow Cemetery in Westchester County, New York.

     5. Emily A Opp (1904–1917) was born on 23 February 1904 in Kings county, New York. She died just over a month before her thirteenth birthday on 15 January 1917, and was also buried in Sleepy Hollow.

     6. Stanley Walter Opp (1912–2001) was born in New York City, and grew up in Newark, where he met his wife, Eleanor Bertha Ficke (1915–2004). They married around 1937, then lived in Denville, New Jersey, from 1944 until 1973. He was a warehouse supervisor at Bendix Corp. in Teterboro for 29 years, retiring in 1971. They had two children, one son, Stanley Charles Opp (1938–1993), and a daughter, still living.

Stanley and Eleanor then moved to Tuckerton, New Jersey, where he was a licensed optician. They lived there from 1973 until 1989, and retired to Mount Bethel, Pennsylvania. He received his optician degree from Camden Community College in 1980. He also owned and operated, with his late son, the Stanley Shell, later known as Stanley's Sunoco, in Denville.

     7. Dorothy Opp (b. 1915) remains a bit of a mystery; her brother Stanley's 2001 obituary mentioned her (as "Dorothy Campbell") and said she died previously, but did not say when. And she appeared in the 1940 Census in her younger brother James's household in Hillside, New Jersey, where her surname looks like "Comboy" (possibly a mis-hearing of "Campbell").

After the 1915 death of Lillian, James H. Opp's third marriage was to Jessica Viola "Jessie" Owens (1896–1987). They had one son in 1917, and then about a year after that, in 1918, James and his business associates took over the Aluminum War Manufacturing Company headquartered in Elmira, New York. James and his family all relocated to Elmira, and James purchased the famous Glove House there.

James's oldest son, Richard D., worked for him at this company, and James soon took over as president of the company from his partners. But within a couple of years, questions over the company's finances led to the Opps giving up control of the company, and moving back to New Jersey. It isn't clear that anyone did anything wrong, but the newspapers of the time implied that this was a local controversy.

     8. James Henry Opp Jr (1917–2010) married Shirley Cole (1920–1986), and they had two children: a daughter, still living, and a son, James Michael Opp (1956–1989). The family lived in Southern California from the mid-1950s, and James and Shirley are buried in Pierce Brothers Valley Oaks Memorial Park, Westlake Village, Los Angeles county.

     C. Emily Amelia Opp (1871–1913) married Emil C Frey; they are my 2nd-great grandparents, so I will cover their family in more detail in future posts. I told much of Emil's story here on the blog a few years ago in Love and Loss in Old New York (and New Jersey).

II. Emily M. Palmer (b. 1842)

Emily married Alexander Charles Radcliffe (1819–1900)  on November 5, 1871, in Jersey City, New Jersey. They had one son, Loder B Radcliffe born and died in 1873. After Alexander's death, Emily was living in Philadelphia, where she was last seen in 1912. I have not found any record of her death.

III. Sarah D. Palmer (b. 1854)

Sarah was born in May 1854 in New Jersey, and she married James L W Decker (b. 1858) on October 9, 1884, in Jersey City, New Jersey. They had four children in 11 years. They appeared together with their children in the 1900 and 1910 U.S. Census, and on birth and death records for the three younger children; there is also a marriage record for them in the New Jersey, Marriage Records, 1670-1965 database.

I don't know precisely when Sarah or James died, but she is listed in a U.S. City Directory at their home on Graham St. in 1918 as "wid. Jas. W." - and she appears in the 1930 Census in the household of her son-in-law, John T. Denmead.

     A. Theresa Decker (b. 1885) last appears in her parents' home on the 1910 U.S. Census, where they lived on Graham St. in Jersey City. She is single and 25 years old, with no listed occupation.

     B. Gordon Thayer Decker (1888–1952) married Marie Augusta Harnisch (1892–1972) on 21 December 1915, and they lived in the house on Graham St. with his parents. Gordon and Marie soon had their daughter, and they moved to East Orange around 1920. Gordon worked as a machinist and engineer until the 1940s, when he and Marie appear to have retired, either to San Diego, or to New York. Marie appears in both New Jersey and San Diego on the 1940 Census; in New Jersey, she lived with Gordon and her elderly parents, and in San Diego, she lived with her daughter and son-in-law.

Gordon died 8 April 1952, and was buried in San Diego, and Marie died there in 1972.

     1. Lois Decker (1917–1977) married Robert Edward Cullmer (1911–1968) of Montclair, New Jersey, probably in 1935. They moved to San Diego, California, where their son was born: Robert Morrison Cullmer (1937–2001).

     C. Grace P Decker (1889) died in June 1889 at five months of age.

     D. Caroline C Decker 1897–1993) was born on March 10, 1897, in Jersey City, New Jersey. She married John Tennant Denmead, Jr. (1894–1939) about 1921. They had six sons between 1922 and 1939, when John died. One son is still living.

Caroline remarried Julius Leo Briegel (1898-1977), and lived in Netcong, New Jersey, for many years. She was an assistant librarian at the Netcong Library from 1957 to 1967. She was a member of the Netcong Board of Education from 1950 to 1967, and served on the Juvenile Conference Committee of Morris County Juvenile Court from 1960 to 1965. She was a World War II Gold Star Mother and a past president and member of the Veterans of Foreign Wars Lakeland Post 2347 Ladies' Auxiliary of Netcong.

She died in 1993 in Passaic, New Jersey, at the age of 96, and was buried in Netcong, New Jersey.

     1. John T Denmead III (1922–2013) was born in Jersey City, New Jersey, and lived most of his life in the Netcong/Stanhope area. He served in the U.S. Army Air Corps. during WW II as a water survival instructor in Fresno, California. After the war, Jack worked as a salesman for Vita Frost Frozen Foods until it closed. He then worked as Superintendent of Building and Grounds with Lenape Valley Regional High School for over 25 years before retiring in 1987.

Jack was well known in his community for his historical knowledge of lakes Musconetcong and Hopatcong. He conducted water safety instruction for the Sussex County American Red Cross, certifying lifeguards in the area.

Jack married Patricia Jane Black (1923–1993) in 1943, and was survived by his brother, three children, four grandchildren and two great-grandchildren.

     2. Donald R Denmead (1923–1943) enlisted in the Army Air Corps, and served as a ball turret gunner on the B-17 #4230872, 'Ole Puss,' which collided with another aircraft on 16 December 1943. The plane crashed into North Sea, and Sgt. Denmead was lost with the rest of the crew.

     3. James G Denmead (1928–2013) James served in the Marine Corps during World War II, and married Doris Louise Tobin (1923–2002) on 11 October 1952. He worked for Fablock Mills in Berkeley Heights, New Jersey, as a computer data and construction manager. He was a member of the Warren Township American Legion Post 293. In his spare time he enjoyed oil painting, and sang with  the Hounds for Harmony Barbershop Chorus in Plainfield, New Jersey.

James and Doris are survived by their daughter.

     4. Bruce P Denmead (1933–1991) was born on June 12, 1933, in Dover, New Jersey, and lived in Phillipsburg, New Jersey, much of his life. He was a dispatcher at Jersey Central Power & Light Co. in Phillipsburg for 28 years before retiring in 1986. He was a member of Westley United Methodist Church in Phillipsburg. He also was a Cub Scout Webelos leader for Pack 62 in Budd Lake.

He died on January 20, 1991, at the age of 57, and was buried in Easton, Pennsylvania. He is survived by his wife, a son, four daughters, and seven grandchildren.

     6. Harry Wadsworth Denmead (1939–2008) was born on April 21, 1939, in Dover, New Jersey. He married Mary Ann Parliment (1940–2013) on 24 October 1958 in Vance, North Carolina, and enlisted in the U.S. Army from 1963-1965. They resided in Netcong prior to moving to the Budd Lake section of Mount Olive Township, New Jersey, in 1965.

Mary Ann was a nurse, working for many years at Dover General and Karen Ann Quinlin Hospice. Harry retired in 1998 after 38 years as a production planner with Westinghouse in Randolph. He was a life member of Stanhope United Methodist Church in Stanhope, and he was a member of the Barber Shop Harmony Society for 50 years.

Harry died on Wednesday afternoon, Oct 1, 2008, at St Clare's Hospital, Denville, after a short illness. MaryAnn died on Friday morning, April 19, 2013 at her home in Netcong after a long illness. They were survived by a son, two daughters, and two grand-children.

IV. Carrie W. Palmer (b. 1856)

When Carrie Palmer married Charles H Stevens (1840–1921) on October 8, 1879, in Jersey City, New Jersey, she was 22 years old. He was a boot & shoe maker with two children from a previous marriage. They had two more children.

Carrie's new step-children were William A. Stevens (b. 1866) and Evelyn Stevens (b. 1870). She is the Evelyn Stevens who married her step-cousin, James Henry Opp (1870–1941). After they divorced, Evelyn remarried George W. Gifford (b. 1868) on 11 August 1900.

Carrie died in 1931 in New Jersey at the age of 75, and was buried in Morristown, New Jersey.

     A. Charles H Stevens Jr. (1882–1923) married Jeannette "Jennie" Kalshoven (1886–1979) in 1908. He worked as a bank clerk, and died at only 41 years of age. They were survived by a son, Charles H Stevens (1910–1985).

     B. Clara R H Stevens (b. 1892) married William Fredrick Wing (1889–1942) on 22 December 1912, and they appeared together in her parents' household on the 1920 U.S. Census - but by 1922, William was no longer listed in Jersey City with Clara. He seems to have remarried by 1925. The last record I have of Clara is her listing in the 1922 U.S. City Directory for Jersey City, living in her parents' home on Grant St.

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As you can imagine, this is a very time consuming project! I'm planning to continue, but it certainly won't be a weekly exercise.

If you're a relative of any of the people named here, I am always eager to hear from cousins - especially if they can help me fix any mistakes I might have made in the course of my research.

If you've had your DNA tested through FTDNA.com, look for me in your Matches; you can reach me through my "callintad" Gmail address (listed there on my profile, too) or you can drop a comment below.